As the only reviewer that appears to actually be a newlywed (3 months), I think it's notable that the others reviewed it significantly lower than I did. As someone who has had long-term sexual relationships in the past, you can sometimes forget (or rationalize or view with rose-colored glasses) that initial sexual learning period.Living in a modern orthodox community that is (one of) the intended audience for this book, I see how DESPERATELY it is needed. It is clear, does not use euphemisms, and is incredibly down-to-brass-tacks practical. Right down to the various types of lubricant and a warning not to use too much or add more later. This kind of knowledge is golden for its audience. I didn't expect to learn much, as I was an informal relationship counselor on my college campus, but there were tips I'd never heard. Additionally, I saw it from a new perspective as a newlywed who had not been sexually active for several years. I am especially glad how strongly the authors repeated that your own comfort is the essential ingredient (and that without your own comfort, it's not going to work well physically). My only disappointment was the answer to a female's question about her husband refusing to do more than one position after a year of marriage. Respecting his comfort level is probably not the correct answer in that case. He is certainly not feeling comfortable, but it's probably a more serious issue that should be confronted. As a minor point, it was kind of weird how it changed back and forth from male to female perspective from one sentence to the next. I understand why (and appreciate it), but it was a little hard to keep up which perspective was speaking sometimes.I wish the Kindle edition made it more obvious that the diagrams actually are included; they're not in the table of contents or where I expected them to be. They are at the end of the "parting words" section.